You can do it! Go you!
Honor yourself and your commitment of making this year different for yourself by putting you first.
You took the time yesterday to work with the steps you need to take and you made them into small increments that you are sure you can do. Honor this by scheduling time in your day to actually do one of the steps. I’ve found the best time of the day is first thing in the morning.
When the alarm first rings, get up. Don’t hit the snooze button. I know it’s tough to get out of a warm comfy bed, especially if it’s dark and cold. I know it’s tempting to say you’ll hit the snooze only this once…. Don’t do it–don’t hit that snooze button! Get up instead. You’ll be very glad you did, I promise. Remind yourself that you’re getting up because you are in the process of building something better for yourself this year.
You don’t have to get up hours and hours ahead. I’m sure you hit the snooze button several times in the morning. Snooze periods are from 4 – 9 minutes, depending upon which brand of clock you have. By getting up with the first buzz of the alarm, you’re gaining an extra 4 – 30 minutes (or more!) in the mornings. That’s perfect for completing a step!
Choose one that will take only a few minutes to complete (when you’re beginning a new routine, start small and simple. As your momentum gathers, you can increase your time). This is another one of the benefits of breaking your steps into teeny tiny increments. Not only does it create the belief that you can do that little piece, but the bits are small enough that they can be done in a few minutes.
When you put yourself first each morning, you’ll be surprised and amazed at how much better you’ll feel. Soon, you’ll have a spark of energy that you didn’t have before. You’ll also begin to feel more confident about yourself and more positive about the day ahead. And it won’t take months to feel this. With regularly putting yourself first in the day, you will quickly feel empowered.
For those of you who are unable to take an actual step, spend a few minutes first thing this morning imagining the little step that you could take if everything were lined up perfectly. Engage as many of your senses as possible. Don’t worry, though, if you have only a vague sense of things. That’s good enough for now.
Your homework for today, in case you haven’t already done so, is spending a little time going through your list of teeny tiny steps and categorizing them into ones that will take 5 minutes or less to complete, ones that will take 5 – 15 minutes to complete, ones that will take 15 – 30 minutes to complete, and so on. In the evening before you retire for the night, go through your list and select an increment you’ll complete first thing in the morning. Then go to sleep with the peace of knowing you’re all set for a terrific start to your day.
You did it! You got up when your alarm first rang and you also took a small step first thing this morning–whether you actually did something or if you spent time imagining it (PS: categorizing your steps counts as taking a step!)
You are awesome–a rock star! Yay you!
I’m so proud of you! I knew you could do it!