Who’s at the Controls?



Who is at the controls of your life? Automatically, you probably answered that you are. But think a moment; really think about it. You may find that you are waiting: waiting for someone to lead the way or for someone to take your hand and go with you. You’re in a holding pattern because of this underlying searching/waiting./hoping/praying. No one is stepping up to the plate. Meanwhile, you’re just marking time….

But no one else is supposed to step up to the plate. It isn’t their job to do so, it’s yours! YOU are the one who was chosen and specifically crafted to live your life and achieve the dreams in your heart and soul.

YOU were given all you need to do this. However, just because you may have to ask for help does NOT mean you can’t do it—that you aren’t capable, competent, or that you don’t have what it takes. All that asking for help means is that you need a little assistance or advice or a boost. That’s all. You just need a helping hand, period.

Let me remind you that you do have what it takes! Sometimes you have to roll up your sleeves and dig deep. It’s there, though; ‘what it takes’ is right there inside you. Go get it! Take control! You can do it!


Your homework today is to shake off the holding pattern you’re in and firmly grasp the controls of your life. You have what it takes! You absolutely can have an exciting, fulfilling, and satisfying life—the life of your dreams. Go out and get it!

I know you can do this. I am convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have what it takes; you can do it! Go you!

I am so proud of you!

Your Friend and Pep Pal,


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