Let Go of 2015

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Today we’re another step away from 2015. Let it go.  Turn away from it and look forward.

Now in 2016 we have a fresh start, a clean slate, another chance. Once again, we can try one more time…or two…or three…however many tries it takes to reach our dreams.  We have the opportunity to take another shot at it.

So, with this fresh, new year filled with limitless potentials, let’s not sully it with the baggage of 2015. Let go of the disappointments, regrets, discouragements, frustrations, worries, fears, the things that made us angry and that which broke our heart.

Let it all go.

Let it all go so that our hands, arms, mind, and spirit have plenty of room for all the Goodness that’s ours and that is eager to come into our life.

Let go and empty all of ourselves–our mind, heart, and soul–and welcome in 2016 and all the Richness that’s just for us!


Your homework is to keep your mind focused on the possibilities in 2016.

If you find yourself feeling bad, sad, angry, or whatever, because of events in 2015, stop yourself immediately and emphatically. Turn your mind toward your dreams and all the Great Stuff that’s in store just for you in 2016.

Force yourself to do this. It’s imperative that you do this.

The Good Stuff that’s yours and only yours can’t and won’t come to you if you’re looking at the past, if you’re feeling guilty and ashamed of what you did or did not do in 2015 or what did or did not happen to you in 2015.

Keep your eyes, mind, heart, and soul focused on 2016 so you don’t miss one drop, one moment of Your Goodness in 2016!

You can do it, I am sure of it!

I’m so very proud of you!

Your Friend and Pep Pal,


Busting the Box Revisited



Yesterday’s post was about busting the box (click here to be taken to it). I encouraged you to make time in your life for you. And, to make room in your life for you and your dreams.

I gave an example of what busting the box might look like. Here’s another example:

Busting the box means that your life will no longer look like the one that your parents want you to live—or the one your teachers, friends, co-workers, and others want you to live.

Busting the box means not following the crowd and doing what everyone else is doing or wanting what everyone else is wanting.

Most of all, busting the box means not falling for the “life” that TV, movies, and advertisers tell you that you should want to live.

Busting the box means that you decide what you want to do, who you want to be, and where you want to go.

Busting the box means that you get to choose.


Your homework today is to continue busting that box!

You can do it, I know you can!

I’m so proud of you!

Your Friend and Pep Pal,


Happy 2016: Bust the Box





This year I wish all of you the very best of what life has to offer.


This Holiday Season, I saw the beginning of a Christmas movie. It was about a journalist who was up for a promotion along with one of her colleagues. The Editor-in-Chief gave a great assignment to her colleague, which virtually guaranteed the promotion would go to the colleague. Naturally, the journalist was disappointed and the Editor-in-Chief realized this so he made the effort to speak with her privately. He told her that she needed to “wow” him with her assignments. He advised her to bust the box—not just think outside of it but to actually bust it.


I didn’t watch the whole movie but I figure it was like a typical Hallmark Christmas movie with everything working out for the journalist and her going on to have a very meaningful and joyous Christmas.

But the Editor-in-Chief’s advice to “bust the box” got me to thinking….

“Think outside the box” is a popular saying. But the Editor-in-Chief is correct: thinking outside the box isn’t good enough. You still have the box within sight, within reach. If the going gets tough or if you get too nervous or uncomfortable, you can quickly scurry back to its safety.

You have to do something radically different.

You must bust the box.

Without the security blanket of the box, you leave yourself no option but to go for it, to test yourself and see just how high and how far you can go. You have no choice but to dig into yourself and see all the surprises, treasures, and gifts that are within you. You leave yourself no alternative but to take all of those out for a spin in the world to see just what they can do.

Take them out onto a curvy mountain road and see how they hug the twists and turns and never once let you go off the edge. Open the throttle wide on the straight-aways and see just how fast and how far they can take you—in perfect safety.

And the exhilaration of it all!


Your homework is to bust the box.

Yes, I know. We all have obligations and responsibilities. We have spouses, children, parents, jobs, bosses, mortgages, car payments, etcetera, etcetera.

Busting the box does not mean you chuck it all and run away to a tropical island. It means that you challenge yourself—and make yourself meet the challenge—of making time in your life for YOU and for what’s important to YOU.

It’s taking the time to ask—and answer—the questions: what fulfills you; what makes you feel that you’re making a difference? What matters most to you?

It’s clearing time in your life for you to live it the way you want to—in light of the fact that you have family obligations and work responsibilities and the like.

Busting the box for you may look like you getting up an hour earlier to pursue what captivates you. And it’s sticking to that hour earlier every morning. No matter what.

It means you do NOT hit the snooze button just this once. You do NOT give up your hour to help with the church bake sale. You do NOT diss yourself and your dreams by saying to yourself that it was a silly and unrealistic idea anyway.

It means you never go back to the box. You don’t look for the shards and splinters and then try to glue them back together. You don’t go to the hardware store and buy lumber and nails to make a new box. You don’t search online for a box making kit and then order it.

Instead, it means you remind yourself that the box is broken beyond repair and that there’s no going back, only going forward.

It means that no matter how silly—or lonely—you feel, no matter how hard it is, you show up. And you keep showing up no matter how bad of a job you think you’re doing or no matter how loudly the crickets are chirping because you’re so uninspired.

Busting the box is showing up in your life for you.

Every. Single. Day.

You can do it, I know you can.

I’m very, very proud of you!

Your Friend and Pep Pal,