You can’t reach out and grasp your destiny if you’re reaching back and filling your hands with the baggage of the past. ~T.D. Jakes
This quote nails it so there isn’t much more to say.
In summary:
~Let go of the past. It’s over. Nothing you can do will change what did or did not happen.
~Turn away and leave your baggage.
~Step into the present with open hands with an eye to the future and reach for your Glorious Destiny.
It’s that simple.
You can do it, I know you can! I believe in you!
You’re AWESOME and I’m so proud of you!
Your Friend and Pep Pal,
Lauren
Yes I Can Pep Talks 
