Letting Go, An Inspirational Poem

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I was clicking around the Internet and came across this poem. I liked it very much because it explains that letting go doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve given up or thrown in the towel. Letting go can mean that you’re allowing a loved one to learn by reaping the consequences of their actions–or inactions. Letting go can mean that you realize it isn’t your place to always solve everyone else’s problems.

Here’s the poem to read for yourself:

Letting Go by Author Unknown

To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring;
It means I can’t do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off…
It’s the realization that I can’t control another…
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try and change or blame another,
I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective,
It is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.

 

I like this poem because it’s reminiscent of the Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr. In this poem, Letting Go, as with Niebuhr’s poem, is filled with common sense wisdom that is deeply profound as it is simple.

Let me know what you think of this poem. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below. Thanks!

Your Friend and Pep Pal,

Lauren

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2 thoughts on “Letting Go, An Inspirational Poem”

  1. HI Julie,
    This poem rang true for me, too. I found it very hopeful because oftentimes we associate letting go with throwing in the towel and walking away. This poem helped me see that it isn’t that at all. If I’ve had to step away from a person or situation–had to let it go–it doesn’t mean that I don’t care or that I can’t revisit the person or situation later on. I find that very hopeful and comforting.
    Thank you for your comment!
    Your Friend and Pep Pal,
    Lauren

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