I came across this video on expectations. I thought it was good and I think it can help you.
I agree with Brendon Burchard that to have no expectations in life is definitely not a recipe for achieving your dreams. Going through life with no expectations is a great way to set yourself up for just drifting through life. I don’t believe this is the most effective way to bring out the greatness within you–and we all have greatness within.
It’s our mission in life to manifest this greatness–not in a way that’s arrogant, stuck up, or better-than-others. Rather, manifesting your greatness is a celebration of the abundance of Life, the goodness of Life, and that it’s available to all of us.
I think Brendon hits the nail on the head when he says that there are three points to expectations:
Form positive expectations for your life.
Believe in yourself; believe you can figure it out when you hit rough patches. It’ll take work and the help of others, most likely, but you can do it. Believe it; expect it!
Have positive expectations of other people.
There are a lot of good people out there who are willing to give you a hand from time-to-time. They won’t do the work for you, of course, but they are glad to share what they’ve learned.
Yes, of course, there are people who aren’t very nice, but I’ve found that they are few and far between. Mostly, people want to help and they will help you. Put in the time, put in the effort and you’ll see that others are glad to reach out a helping hand.
Have positive expectations for Life.
Expect that your days, your life, is getting better and better. Expect Life to support this. Granted, it sometimes does this by throwing you curve balls but, when you look back, you see that the rough patch actually helped you become bigger, better, and more of who you truly are.
I agree with Brendon regarding expectations. How about you? Let me know in the comments below. Thanks!
Your Friend and Pep Pal,