I came across an excellent article on self-forgiveness as a critical component of healing guilt and shame. I found it on Psychology Today’s blog. It’s a bit of a lengthy read, but if you’re struggling with guilt, shame, and blame (or if you know someone who’s grappling with these) this article is well worth it.
The article talks about:
~The devastating effects of guilt, shame, and not forgiving yourself;
~An explanation of the difference between guilt and shame;
~Obstacles to self-forgiveness;
~Forgiving yourself when you’ve harmed others.
The article takes a closer look at four avenues of self-forgiveness:
~Asking for forgiveness from Source.
My takeaway from this article was the discussion on forgiving yourself when you’ve caused harm to another. When people talk about forgiveness, usually it’s from the vantage point of having been harmed by someone. This is the first article that I’ve found that openly discusses how to forgive yourself when you’ve been the perpetrator of the harm.
What insights did you get from the article? Let me know in the comments below. Thanks!
Your Friend and Pep Pal,